I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
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When force of circumstance upsets your equanimity lose no time in recovering your self-control, and do not remain out of tune longer than you can help. Habitual recurrence to the harmony will increase your mastery of it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Maintain your composure in the face of challenges and work to regain your balance quickly.
This quote emphasizes the importance of self-control and emotional stability, especially when faced with difficult circumstances. It suggests that instead of dwelling on negative emotions or turmoil, one should strive to restore inner peace and harmony as quickly as possible, as the practice of this can enhance one's ability to remain centered in the future.
Themes
Self-ControlEquanimityHarmonyCircumstanceMastery
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about resilience, one could use this quote to illustrate the importance of quickly regaining composure.
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