But let us not forget that cities are like human beings. They are born, they go through childhood and adolescence, they grow old, and eventually they die
Fret not where the road will take you. Instead concentrate on the first step. That's the hardest part and that's what you are responsible for. Once you take that step let everything do what it naturally does and the rest will follow. Do not go with the flow. Be the flow.
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What this quote means
Focus on taking the initial step rather than worrying about the entire journey.
This quote emphasizes the importance of taking action in the face of uncertainty. It suggests that while it’s natural to be concerned about the future or the direction of one’s life, what truly matters is the first step one takes. By concentrating on this initial action, one can overcome the fear that often paralyzes progress. Once that step is taken, the unfolding of events will take its natural course, and instead of passively going along with circumstances, one should strive to be an active force in shaping their journey.
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Example use cases
In a graduation speech to inspire students to take the first steps into their future careers.
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