Never promise more than you can perform.
Publilius SyrusRead
Treat your friend as if he might become an enemy.
Interpretation
Be mindful of how you treat your friends, as their loyalty can change.
This quote suggests that one should treat their friends with a degree of caution and respect, acknowledging that relationships can evolve over time. It reflects the idea that even those who are close to us can become adversaries under certain circumstances, highlighting the importance of being considerate and maintaining healthy boundaries in friendships.
In practice
In a speech about the dynamics of friendship at a community event.
Never promise more than you can perform.
Pain forces even the innocent to lie.
In a heated argument we are apt to lose sight of the truth.
Admonish your friends privately, but praise them openly.
What a tragedy is help where it harms what it supports!
The miser is as much in want of what he has as of what he has not.
Loving friendships provide us with a space to experience the joy of community in a relationship where we learn to process all our issues, to cope with differences and conflict while staying connected.
We were not just competitors and colleagues, we were friends. We had a lot of opportunities to reflect on this in the last year. It was a competitive brotherhood.
We cannot tell the precise moment when friendship is formed. As in filling a vessel drop by drop, there is at last a drop which makes it run over; so in a series of kindnesses there is at last one which makes the heart run over.
There is no possession more valuable than a good and faithful friend.
I shall choose friends among men, but neither slaves nor masters. And I shall choose only such as please me, and them I shall love and respect, but neither command nor obey. And we shall join our hands when we wish, or walk alone when we so desire.
We secure our friends not by accepting favors but by doing them.
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