The key to wisdom is this - constant and frequent questioning, for by doubting we are led to question and by questioning we arrive at the truth.
Peter AbelardRead
And now, my friend, I am going to expose to you all my weaknesses. All men, I believe, are under a necessity of paying tribute at some time or other to Love, and it is vain to strive to avoid it. I was a philosopher, yet this tyrant of the mind triumphed over all my wisdom; his darts were of greater force than all my reasonings, and with a sweet constraint he led me wherever he pleased.
Interpretation
This quote expresses the inevitability of love's influence over human beings, revealing one's vulnerabilities and the overpowering nature of emotions.
In this quote, Peter Abelard reflects on the universal experience of love, suggesting that it is an unavoidable force that affects everyone, regardless of their rationality or wisdom. He describes love as a 'tyrant of the mind' that triumphs over reason, illustrating the powerful and sometimes consuming nature of love that leads individuals to yield to its influence, even when they might resist intellectually.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a wedding ceremony to reflect on the power of love in relationships.
The key to wisdom is this - constant and frequent questioning, for by doubting we are led to question and by questioning we arrive at the truth.
We call an intention good which is right in itself, but the action is good, not because it contains within it some good, but because it issues from a good intention.
By doubting we are led to question, by questioning we arrive at the truth.
Are you not moved to tears and bitter compassion, when you behold the only Son of God seized by the most impious, dragged away, mocked, scourged, buffeted, spit upon, crowned with thorns, hung upon the infamous cross between two thieves, finally in such a horrible and execrable manner suffering death, for your salvation and that of the world?
Our redemption through the suffering of Christ is that deeper love within us which not only frees us from slavery to sin, but also secures for us the true liberty of the children of God, in order that we might do all things out of love rather than out of fear - love for him that has shown us such grace that no greater can be found.
In doubting we come to inquiry; by inquiry we perceive the truth.
My mother is not a model. She is not perfect. That awareness is part of learning to love someone. Predicting the actions of someone is an act of love. We persist, even when we get it wrong. That's the beauty of love.
Lovers don't meet in the end, they are in each other forever.
It is unfortunately very true that, without leisure and money, love can be no more than an orgy of the common man. Instead of being a sudden impulse full of ardor and reverie, it becomes a distastefully utilitarian affair.
Whoever you are, now I place my hand upon you/ That you may be my poem/ I whisper with my lips close to your ear/ I have loved many women and men, but I love none better than you.
Bitterness imprisons life; love releases it. Bitterness paralyzes life; love empowers it. Bitterness sours life; love sweetens it. Bitterness sickens life; love heals it. Bitterness blinds life; love anoints its eyes.
I am bewildered by the death of love. And my responsibility for it.
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