Privilege is not in and of itself bad; what matters is what we do with privilege. I want to live in a world where all women have access to education, and all women can earn PhD’s, if they so desire. Privilege does not have to be negative, but we have to share our resources and take direction about how to use our privilege in ways that empower those who lack it.
To live fixated on the future is to engage in psychological denial. It is a form of psychic violence that prepares us to accept the violence needed to ensure the maintenance of imperialist, future-oriented society.
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What this quote means
Focusing solely on the future can distort our perception of reality and contribute to a harmful societal mindset.
This quote by Bell Hooks suggests that an obsession with the future can lead to a disconnection from the present and may enable systemic injustices by promoting a mindset that legitimizes the sacrifices or violence needed to maintain a future-oriented society. It critiques the idea that one should always look forward without acknowledging the current state of affairs, emphasizing the psychological toll this denial can take on individuals and society as a whole.
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During a workshop on mindfulness, one could use this quote to highlight the importance of staying present.
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