We're always attracted to the edges of what we are, out by the edges where it's a little raw and nervy.
E. L. DoctorowRead
We are all good friends. Friendship is what endures. Shared ideals, respect for the whole character of a human being.
Interpretation
Friendship is characterized by shared values and mutual respect, creating lasting bonds.
In this quote by E. L. Doctorow, the essence of true friendship is highlighted as a relationship enduring through shared ideals and deep respect for one another's character. This implies that genuine connections go beyond superficial interactions, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the whole person behind the friendship.
In practice
In a graduation speech emphasizing the lasting nature of bonds formed in school.
We're always attracted to the edges of what we are, out by the edges where it's a little raw and nervy.
One of the things I had to learn as a writer was to trust the act of writing. To put myself in the position of writing to find out what I was writing.
In fiction, you know, there are no borders. You can go anywhere.
Books are acts of composition: you compose them. You make music: the music is called fiction.
I've known several cases of writers who decide to write about something and they research the hell out of it and when they're ready to write, they can't move because they are so burdened. I start writing. Whatever I need somehow comes to hand.
Things that appear on the front page of the newspaper as 'fact' are far more dangerous than the games played by a novelist, and can lead to wars.
Hard-covered books break up friendships. You loan a hard covered book to a friend and when he doesnβt return it you get mad at him. It makes you mean and petty. But twenty-five cent books are different.
My best Acquaintances are those With Whom I spoke no Word
I remembered this one time that I never told anybody about. The time we were walking. Just the three of us. I was in the middle. I don't remember where we were walking to or where we were walking from. I just remember the season. I just remember walking between them and feeling for the first time that I belonged somewhere
We ought, all of us, to realize each other in this intense, pathetic, and important way. If you say that this is absurd, and that we cannot be in love with everyone at once, I merely point out to you that, as a matter of fact, certain persons do exist with an enormous capacity for friendship and for taking delight in other people's lives; and that such persons know more of truth than if their hearts were not so big.
And then there are my friends, and they have their own lives. While they like to talk everything through, to analyze and hypothesize, what I really need, what I'm really looking for, is not something I can articulate. It's nonverbal: I need love. I need the thing that happens when your brain shuts off and your heart turns on. And I know it's around me somewhere, but I just can't feel it.
He who does not see the whole world in his friends, does not deserve that the world should hear of him.
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