Before I married, I had three theories about raising children and no children. Now, I have three children and no theories.
It is a very good world to live in, To lend or to spend, or to live in; but to beg or to borrow, or to get a man's own, It is the very worst world that ever was known.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the nature of the world, highlighting the positivity of giving and living freely while criticizing the negative aspects of taking and depending on others.
John Wilmot's quote emphasizes the duality of human existence, where the joy of living in a world that encourages generosity and spending contrasts sharply with the disdain for a life spent in begging or borrowing. This profound observation criticizes the reliance on others and suggests that true fulfillment comes from contributing positively to the world rather than seeking help or support at the expense of one's dignity.
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In practice
Example use cases
When discussing the importance of community service, one might quote Wilmot to emphasize the value of giving.
More from John Wilmot
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