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Growth is a painful process._x000D_ If we’re ever going to collectively begin to grapple with the problems that we have collectively, we’re going to have to move back the veil and deal with each other on a more human level.
Wilma Mankiller
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Growth often involves discomfort and requires honest interactions among individuals.

Wilma Mankiller highlights that growth, whether personal or societal, is often a challenging and painful journey. To effectively address the complex problems facing us, it is essential that we engage with one another sincerely and genuinely, moving beyond superficial interactions to achieve authentic understanding and connection.

Themes

GrowthPainHuman ConnectionChangeSociety

In practice

Example use cases

In a team meeting discussing organizational change, I might say this quote to emphasize the importance of facing challenges together.

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My name is Mankiller, and in the old Cherokee Nation, when we lived here in the Southeast, we lived in semi-autonomous villages, and there was someone who watched over the village, who had the title of mankiller. And I'm not sure what you could equate that to, but it was sort of like a soldier or someone who was responsible for the security of the village, and so anyway this one fellow liked the title mankiller so well that he kept it as his name, and that's who we trace our ancestry back to.
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Everybody is sitting around saying, 'Well, jeez, we need somebody to solve this problem of bias.' That somebody is us. We all have to try to figure out a better way to get along.
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One of the things my parents taught me, and I'll always be grateful as a gift, is to not ever let anybody else define me; that for me to define myself. and I think that helped me a lot in assuming a leadership position.
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