The spiritual journey involves going beyond hope and fear, stepping into unknown territory, continually moving forward. The most important aspect of being on the spiritual path may be just to keep moving.
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When you refrain from habitual thoughts and behavior, the uncomfortable feelings will still be there. They don’t magically disappear. Over the years, I’ve come to call resting with the discomfort “the detox period,” because when you don’t act on your habitual patterns, it’s like giving up an addiction. You’re left with the feelings you were trying to escape. The practice is to make a wholehearted relationship with that
Interpretation
What this quote means
Avoiding habitual thoughts and behaviors allows uncomfortable emotions to surface, leading to personal growth.
This quote emphasizes the importance of confronting discomfort instead of fleeing from it. Pema Chodron describes the process of abstaining from habitual patterns as akin to detoxing from an addiction, where feelings once suppressed resurface. The quote suggests that developing a genuine relationship with these uncomfortable feelings is essential for personal development and self-awareness.
Themes
DiscomfortHabitual PatternsSelf-AwarenessDetoxEmotions
In practice
Example use cases
In a personal development workshop, a speaker might reference this quote to encourage participants to embrace their uncomfortable feelings.
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