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I was born of heterosexual parents. I was taught by heterosexual teachers in a fiercely heterosexual society. Television ads and newspaper ads — fiercely heterosexual. A society that puts down homosexuality. And why am I a homosexual if I'm affected by role models? I should have been a heterosexual. And no offense meant, but if teachers are going to affect you as role models, there'd be a lot of nuns running around the streets today.
Harvey Milk
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What this quote means

The quote reflects on the influence of societal norms on identity, questioning how role models shape sexuality.

Harvey Milk highlights the contradiction between societal expectations of sexuality and individual identity. He argues that despite being surrounded by heterosexual role models, he identifies as homosexual, suggesting that sexuality is not solely influenced by external factors like family or societal norms. The emphasis on the rejection of homosexuality in society shows the struggles faced by those who do not conform to heteronormative standards, and the quote serves as a reminder of the importance of accepting diverse sexual identities.

Themes

SexualityIdentitySocietyRole ModelsHomosexuality

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Example use cases

This quote can be used in a discussion about the impact of societal norms on personal identity.

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