For was that all, she thought bleakly, that love ever was? Something that saved one from loneliness? A sort of insurance policy against not counting?
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She supposed that houses, after all - like the lives that were lived in them - were mostly made of space. It was the spaces, in fact, which counted, rather than the bricks.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote suggests that the essence of life and homes lies in the intangible aspects, such as experiences and relationships, rather than just physical structures.
In this quote by Sarah Waters, the idea is conveyed that both houses and the lives within them are not defined solely by their physical components, like bricks and mortar, but rather by the spaces and experiences they encompass. The focus is on the emotional and meaningful connections that fill those spaces, implying that it is the memories and relationships that hold the true value in life, rather than material possessions.
Themes
SpaceLivesHousesMeaningExperiences
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of community, one might quote this to emphasize emotional connections.
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All quotes →I felt that thread that had come between us, tugging, tugging at my heart - so hard, it hurt me. A hundred times I almost rose, almost went in to her; a hundred times I thought, Go to her! Why are you waiting? Go back to her side! But every time, I thought of what would happen if I did. I knew that I couldn't lie beside her, without wanting to touch her. I couldn't have felt her breath upon my mouth, without wanting to kiss her. And I couldn't have kissed her, without wanting to save her.
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How will a person know, Selina, when the soul that has the affinity with hers is near it?" She answered, "She will know. Does she look for air, before she breathes it? This love will be guided to her; and when it comes, she will know. And she will do anything to keep that love about her, then. Because to lose it will be like a death to her.
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She scissored the curls away, and - toms, grow easily sentimental over their haircuts, but I remember this sensation very vividly - it was not like she was cutting hair, it was as if I had a pair of wings beneath my shoulder-blades, that the flesh had all grown over, and she was slicing free.
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