Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
Robert Louis StevensonRead
To be idle requires a strong sense of personal identity.
Interpretation
Being idle is not simply doing nothing; it requires a clear understanding of oneself and one's values.
This quote by Robert Louis Stevenson suggests that to be truly idle, or to find contentment in doing nothing, one must possess a strong sense of personal identity. This identity helps individuals to not be swayed by societal expectations or pressures to be constantly productive, instead allowing them to embrace moments of inactivity with confidence in who they are.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a seminar on self-discovery and the importance of finding peace in stillness.
Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
Like a bird singing in the rain, let grateful memories survive in time of sorrow.
That man is a success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much.
His past was fairly blameless; few men could read the rolls of their life with less apprehension; yet he was humbled to the dust by the many ill things he had done, and raised up again into sober and fearful gratitude by the many he had come so near to doing, yet avoided.
The habit of being happy enables one to be freed, or largely freed, from the domination of outward conditions.
It is the history of our kindnesses that alone make this world tolerable. If it were not for that, for the effect of kind words, kind looks, kind letters . . . I should be inclined to think our life a practical jest in the worst possible spirit.
When I tried this morning, after an hour or so of unhappy thinking, to dip back into my meditation, I took a new idea with me: compassion. I asked my heart if it could please infuse my soul with a more generous perspective on my mind's workings. Instead of thinking that I was a failure, could I perhaps accept that I am only a human being--and a normal one, at that?
As you become more clear about who you really are, you'll be better able to decide what is best for you - the first time around.
I would say you might encounter many defeats but you must never be defeated, ever. In fact, it might even be necessary to confront defeat. It might be necessary, to get over it, all the way through it, and go on. I would teach her to laugh a lot. Laugh a lot at the - and the silliest things and be very, very serious. I'd teach her to love life, I can bet you that.
Cultivating care and concern for others gives rise to a kind of inner strength. No matter what difficulties or problems you face, in this wider context they’ll seem less significant and troubling to you. The inner strength, self-confidence and courage you gain by focussing on others’ needs instead of your own, brings with it a deep, calm sense of satisfaction.
Power to translate is the test of having really understood one's own meaning.
To suffer unecessarily is masochistic rather than heroic.
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