I’m not used to girls, or familiar with their customs. I feel awkward around them, I don’t know what to say. I know the unspoken rules of boys, but with girls I sense that I am always on the verge of some unforeseen, calamitous blunder.
Interpretation
The quote expresses the speaker's feelings of discomfort and insecurity in interacting with girls due to unfamiliarity with their social norms.
Margaret Atwood's quote reveals the challenges and anxieties that can arise in social interactions, particularly between genders. The speaker feels out of place and apprehensive when engaging with girls, highlighting a contrast between learned social behaviors among boys and the uncharted territory of female interactions. This reflects broader themes of vulnerability and the fear of making mistakes in social contexts where one feels inexperienced.
In practice
This quote can be used in a discussion about gender differences in socialization skills.
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