Depression can seem worse than terminal cancer, because most cancer patients feel loved and they have hope and self-esteem.
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I'm all for 'tools,' not 'schools,' of therapy. To me, the schools of therapy compete much like religions, or even cults, all claiming to know the cause and to have the best method for treating people.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The speaker advocates for practical therapeutic methods over strict adherence to specific schools of therapy, which can be dogmatic in nature.
In this quote, David D. Burns expresses his belief that effective therapy should focus on practical tools and techniques rather than conforming to specific schools of thought that can often compete with one another like religions. He implies that the emphasis on different therapeutic doctrines can create a confusing landscape that may detract from achieving real help for individuals in need, suggesting that what truly matters are the methodologies that lead to positive outcomes.
Themes
TherapyToolsSchoolsMental HealthMethodsPractical
In practice
Example use cases
A mental health professional may use this quote to emphasize the importance of individualized therapy approaches in their practice.
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