Everyone has two memories. The one you can tell and the one that is stuck to the underside of that, the dark, tarry smear of what happened.
Amy BloomRead
You are imperfect, permanently and inevitably flawed. And you are beautiful.
Interpretation
Embracing imperfections can lead to recognizing one's inherent beauty.
This quote by Amy Bloom highlights the idea that every individual has flaws and imperfections that are an intrinsic part of humanity. Instead of viewing these flaws negatively, the quote encourages us to accept and appreciate them, suggesting that true beauty lies in our authenticity and the uniqueness shaped by our imperfections.
In practice
During a motivational speech about self-acceptance.
Everyone has two memories. The one you can tell and the one that is stuck to the underside of that, the dark, tarry smear of what happened.
Boundaries are the lines we draw that mark off our autonomy and that of other people, that protect our privacy and that of others. Boundaries allow for intimate connection without dissolving or losing one's sense of self.
There is no single right answer or path forward, but there is one right way to frame the problem.
For, he that expects nothing shall not be disappointed, but he that expects much - if he lives and uses that in hand day by day - shall be full to running over.
The passions are the only orators which always persuade.
I'm for the dreamers. The only really important things in history have been started by the dreamers. They never know what can't be done.
What folly made young people, even those in middle age, think they were immortal? How much better, their lives, if they could remember the end. Carrying your death with you every day would make it hard to waste time on unkindness and anger and bitterness, on anything petty. That was the secret: remembering your dying time, in order to keep the stupid and the ugly out of your living time.
Develop discipline of self so that you do not have to decide and re-decide what you will do when you are confronted with the same temptation time and time again. You need only decide some things once.
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