Unbounded courage and compassion join'd, Tempering each other in the victor's mind, Alternately proclaim him good and great, And make the hero and the man complete.
Joseph AddisonRead
It is only imperfection that complains of what is imperfect. The more perfect we are the more gentle and quiet we become towards the defects of others.
Interpretation
Only those who recognize their own flaws tend to criticize others, while self-improvement leads to greater empathy.
This quote by Joseph Addison suggests that it is often our own imperfections that lead us to criticize the flaws in others. As we strive for personal growth and perfection, we develop a gentler and more understanding attitude towards the shortcomings of those around us, fostering a sense of compassion rather than judgment.
In practice
In a discussion about personal growth during a team meeting, one might share this quote to inspire a culture of understanding.
Unbounded courage and compassion join'd, Tempering each other in the victor's mind, Alternately proclaim him good and great, And make the hero and the man complete.
Good nature is more agreeable in conversation than wit and gives a certain air to the countenance which is more amiable than beauty.
Ridicule is generally made use of to laugh men out of virtue and good sense, by attacking everything praiseworthy in human life.
Admiration is a very short lived passion that immediately decays upon growing familiar with its object, unless it still be fed with fresh discoveries, and kept alive by a new perpetual succession of miracles rising up to its view.
It is impossible for us, who live in the latter ages of the world, to make observations in criticism, morality, or in any art or science, which have not been touched upon by others. We have little else left us but to represent the common sense of mankind in more strong, more beautiful, or more uncommon lights.
An ostentatious man will rather relate a blunder or an absurdity he has committed, than be debarred from talking of his own dear person.
We can learn much from wise words, little from wisecracks, and less from wise guys.
The only way to escape the corruptible effect of praise is to go on working.
God, give me grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed.
There is nothing more hateful than bad advice.
The tigers of wrath are wiser than the horses of instruction.
Most people are perpetually locked in the present. Their decisions are overly influenced by the most immediate event; they easily become emotional and ascribe greater significance to a problem than it should have in reality.
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