No one who can rise before dawn three hundred sixty days a year fails to make his family rich.
Malcolm GladwellRead
I remember as a kid watching one of the Olympic games, and I was cheering for a big track athlete. He was the favorite to win, and he lost. I realized in that moment the pain he felt was so much greater than the pain that those who never thought they were going to win would have felt had they lost.
Interpretation
The pain of loss is more intense for those with high expectations of victory.
Malcolm Gladwell reflects on the emotional experience of failure, particularly for those who are favored to succeed. He suggests that the disappointment felt by someone who was expected to win is more profound than that felt by those with lower expectations, underscoring the weight of pressure and aspirations attached to success.
In practice
A coach could use this quote to inspire athletes to manage their expectations and understand the depth of emotional investment in competition.
No one who can rise before dawn three hundred sixty days a year fails to make his family rich.
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The people at the top don't work just harder or even much harder than everyone else. They work much, much harder.
Achievement is talent plus preparation. The problem with this view is that the closer psychologists look at the careers of the gifted, the smaller the role innate talent seems to play and the bigger the role preparation seems to play.
When I go to my health club, and it's in the basement, you have to take the elevator down. And this drives me crazy. Why can't there be a stairway? At least make it as easy to exercise as it is to not exercise. It's in society's interest for me to take the stairs.
Hard work is a prison sentence only if it does not have meaning.
If my edge is dull, my sword is dull, and I don't want to fight another guy whose sword is dull. If you've got two steel swords going back and forth hitting each other, what's gonna happen? Both of them are going to get sharper. Everybody that's in the industry has lost their edge.
I had to persevere because this was my life. This championship, this was the stuff I dreamt of all my life, and I wasn't gonna be denied.
Most people never run far enough on their first wind to find out they've got a second.
I've heard the stories. Like, Eric Clapton said he wanted to burn his guitar when he heard Jimi Hendrix play. I never understood that because, when I went and saw a great drummer or heard one, all I wanted to do was practice.
Have a definite, clear, practical ideal - a goal, an objective.
The grim reality is that most start-ups fail. Most new products are not successful. Yet the story of perseverance, creative genius, and hard work persists.
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