Personal relations are the important thing for ever and ever, and not this outer life of telegrams and anger.
E. M. ForsterRead
Most of life is so dull that there is nothing to be said about it, and the books and talk that would describe it as interesting are obliged to exaggerate, in the hope of justifying their own existence.
Interpretation
Life often feels mundane and unremarkable, leading storytellers to embellish the ordinary to create interest.
E. M. Forster's quote highlights the inherent dullness of everyday life, suggesting that much of our existence lacks the excitement often portrayed in literature and conversation. This underscores a philosophical perspective on the human experience, where the mundane is transformed into dramatic narratives through exaggeration, reflecting our need to find meaning and vibrancy in an otherwise monotonous reality.
In practice
In a book club discussion about the nature of storytelling versus reality.
Personal relations are the important thing for ever and ever, and not this outer life of telegrams and anger.
A poem is true if it hangs together. Information points to something else. A poem points to nothing but itself.
One must be fond of people and trust them if one is not to make a mess of life.
Oxford is Oxford: not a mere receptacle for youth, like Cambridge. Perhaps it wants its inmates to love it rather than to love one another.
The fact is we can only love what we know personally. And we cannot know much. In public affairs, in the rebuilding of civilization, something less dramatic and emotional is needed, namely tolerance.
One person with passion is better than forty people merely interested.
The only way to retrieve a secret,once known, is to replace it with a lie.
She was one of those Southerners who knew from an early age that the South could never be more for them than a fragrant prison, administered by a collective of loving but treacherous relatives.
Would that death were like this. Would that one would sleep and sleep and sleep forever.
If you look too closely at the form, you miss the Essence.
To feed men and not to love them is to treat them as if they were barnyard cattle. To love them and not respect them is to treat them as if they were household pets.
In physics the truth is rarely perfectly clear, and that is certainly universally the case in human affairs. Hence, what is not surrounded by uncertainty cannot be the truth.
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