Know what we did, Lucy? You and me? We spent our whole lives yearning. Isn't that the God damndest thing?
Richard YatesRead
She just happened to feel like it. Wasn’t that after all, the only reason there was? Had she ever had a less selfish, more complicated reason for doing anything in her life?
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote suggests that actions are often driven by simple, self-directed feelings rather than complex motives.
Richard Yates reflects on the nature of human motivation, proposing that sometimes our actions are simply based on our immediate feelings or desires. The speaker questions the complexity of reasons behind our actions, implying that at times, the simplest motive—just feeling like doing something—may be the most honest and genuine. This perspective encourages a deeper contemplation of what drives us in life and whether our choices are rooted in more profound reasoning or mere impulses.
Themes
MotivationSelfishnessFeelingsAction
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about personal motivations behind decisions.
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