The comic spirit is given to us in order that we may analyze, weigh, and clarify things in us which nettle us, or which we are outgrowing, or trying to reshape
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I want you to try and remember what it was like to have been very young. And particularly the days when you were first in love; when you were like a person sleepwalking, and you didn’t quite see the street you were in, and didn’t quite hear everything that was said to you. You’re just a little bit crazy. Will you remember that, please?
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the intoxicating and surreal experience of first love.
In this quote, Thornton Wilder invites us to reminisce about the innocence and enchantment of first love experienced during youth. He describes it as a time when one's emotions are so heightened that reality seems distorted, leading to a state of blissful oblivion where one is only partially aware of their surroundings. This experience, akin to sleepwalking, illustrates how love can sweep us off our feet and transport us to a dreamlike state.
Themes
First LoveYouthMemoriesEmotionCrazyReminiscence
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a wedding toast to celebrate the magic of first love.
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