Empathy is about standing in someone else's shoes, feeling with his or her heart, seeing with his or her eyes. Not only is empathy hard to outsource and automate, but it makes the world a better place.
Daniel H. PinkRead
Just as love blinds us to imperfections in others, it magnifies those we see in ourselves. But if this is true, then the opposite must also be the case. We can take comfort in the fact that our faults will be invisible to those who love us. The success or failure of any relationship depends not just on how we feel about each other, but on how we make each other feel about ourselves.
Interpretation
Love can obscure our view of others' flaws while highlighting our own, but it also makes our flaws less noticeable to those who care for us.
This quote reflects the dual nature of love in relationships, where affection can blind us to the shortcomings of our partners but at the same time amplify our self-perceptions. It suggests that a healthy relationship is not just about mutual feelings of love, but also about fostering positive self-image in one another, highlighting the importance of emotional support and mutual respect in building a successful bond.
In practice
This quote can be used in a wedding speech to highlight the importance of love in marriage.
Empathy is about standing in someone else's shoes, feeling with his or her heart, seeing with his or her eyes. Not only is empathy hard to outsource and automate, but it makes the world a better place.
Promises are worse than lies. You don't just make them believe, you also make them hope.
Marriage is a school itself. Also, having children. Becoming a father changed my whole life. It taught me as if by revelation.
Throughout my career, from Jamaica to Nigeria, Pakistan to Switzerland, I've learned that effective diplomacy means more than shaking hands and staging photo ops. It means developing real, robust relationships. It means finding common ground and managing points of differentiation. It means doing genuine, old-fashioned, people-to-people diplomacy.
The unblemished ideal exists only in happily-ever-after fairy tales. Ruth likes to say, "If two people agree on everything, one of them is unnecessary." The sooner we accept that as a fact of life, the better we will be able to adjust to each other and enjoy togetherness. "Happily incompatible" is a good adjustment.
I sang with my father for over 50 years, and now all of a sudden he's gone, and I just dropped out.
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