I think art is a healing force, and if we give in to the joy that can be found in art, then we are able to sustain ourselves in spite of ourselves.
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Luckily, my father and my mother liked us to talk, so they encouraged us to talk, so that the girls in my house, they're all very powerful speakers and powerful agents of their own will, as is my brother.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of communication and encouragement within a family to foster strong individual voices.
Ntozake Shange reflects on her family's encouragement for open dialogue, highlighting how such an environment empowers each member, especially the girls, to become confident speakers and assertive individuals. This nurturing of expression and agency within the family unit plays a crucial role in shaping strong, independent personalities.
Themes
FamilyCommunicationEmpowermentEncouragementSpeaking
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion on the importance of family values during a public speech.
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