How is it possible to expect that mankind will take advice when they will not so much as take warning.
Jonathan SwiftRead
If a man makes me keep my distance, the comfort is, he keeps his at the same time.
Interpretation
This quote highlights the mutual nature of distance in relationships; if one person maintains distance, the other can feel reassured that the feeling is reciprocated.
Jonathan Swift's quote reflects on the dynamics of personal relationships, suggesting that when one individual chooses to keep their distance, it often implies that this distance is mutual. This can provide comfort to the one affected, as it indicates that they are not alone in their feelings of separation, underscoring a shared experience of emotional space.
In practice
This quote can be used during a speech about personal boundaries in relationships.
How is it possible to expect that mankind will take advice when they will not so much as take warning.
What vexes me most is, that my female friends, who could bear me very well a dozen years ago, have now forsaken me, although I am not so old in proportion to them as I formerly was: which I can prove by arithmetic, for then I was double their age, which now I am not. Letter to Alexander Pope. 7 Feb. 1736.
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I'm as old as my tongue and a little older than my teeth.
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There is an idea abroad among moral people that they should make their neighbors good. One person I have to make good: Myself. But my duty to my neighbor is much more nearly expressed by saying that I have to make him happy if I may.
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He is very fond of me, almost too fond. I could do with less caressing and more rationality. I should like to be less of a pet and more of a friend, if I might choose; but I won't complain of that: I am only afraid his affection loses in depth where it gains in ardour. I sometimes liken it to a fire of dry twigs and branches compared with one of solid coal, very bright and hot; but if it should burn itself out and leave nothing but ashes behind.
Some feel lonely because they haven't found that perfect 'companion' yet. Sometimes Allah sends everyone else away so you can find that only in Him.
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