We are slow to believe that which if believed would hurt our feelings.
A man is sorry to be honest for nothing.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects the idea that honesty can be undervalued if it does not bring any reward or recognition.
Ovid's quote suggests that a person may feel regret or sorrow for being honest when there is no tangible benefit or acknowledgment for their honesty. This speaks to the human tendency to seek validation and the often harsh reality that truthfulness may not always lead to immediate rewards. It implies that the value of honesty can be called into question, especially in a society where results and recognition are valued over integrity.
Themes
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of integrity in leadership, this quote can be used to emphasize the need for honesty even without reward.
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A new idea is delicate. It can be killed by a sneer or a yawn; it can be stabbed to death by a quip and worried to death by a frown on the right man's brow.
Fas est ab hoste doceri._x000D_ One should learn even from one's enemies.
Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you.
The end doesn't justify the means.
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