The work of woman is not to lessen the severity or the certainty of the penalty for the violation of the moral law, but to prevent this violation by the removal of the causes which lead to it.
Susan B. AnthonyRead
When a man says to me, 'Let us work together in the great cause you have undertaken, and let me be your companion and aid, for I admire you more than I have ever admired any other woman,' then I shall say, 'I am yours truly'; but he must ask me to be his equal, not his slave.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Equality and partnership are essential in relationships.
Susan B. Anthony emphasizes the importance of equality in relationships, asserting that mutual respect is vital. While admiration is appreciated, it should not eclipse the need for both parties to see each other as equals, fostering a true partnership where neither is subordinate to the other.
Themes
EqualityRelationshipsPartnershipRespectAdmiration
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about gender equality, this quote can illustrate the importance of balanced partnerships.
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