Don't just live the length of your life - live the width of it as well.
Diane AckermanRead
All relationships change the brain - but most important are the intimate bonds that foster or fail us, altering the delicate circuits that shape memories, emotions and that ultimate souvenir, the self.
Interpretation
Relationships significantly influence our mental processes and sense of self, especially intimate ones.
This quote by Diane Ackerman highlights the profound impact that relationships have on our brains and our identities. Intimate connections can both nurture and hinder our emotional wellbeing, ultimately shaping our memories and the essence of who we are as individuals.
In practice
During a talk about the importance of healthy relationships in mental health.
Don't just live the length of your life - live the width of it as well.
We try to exile ourselves more and more from nature - not always consciously: We build houses; we dismiss nature; nature has to be outside, because we're inside. God forbid something like a cockroach comes inside, or some dust.
We ogle plants and animals up close on television, the Internet and in the movies. We may not worship the animals we see, but we still regard them as necessary physical and spiritual companions. Technological nature can't completely satisfy that yearning.
Because IQ tests favor memory skills and logic, overlooking artistic creativity, insight, resiliency, emotional reserves, sensory gifts, and life experience, they can't really predict success, let alone satisfaction.
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In rare moments of deep play, we can lay aside our sense of self, shed time's continuum, ignore pain, and sit quietly in the absolute present, watching the world's ordinary miracles. No mind or heart hobbles. No analyzing or explaining. No questing for logic. No promises. No goals. No relationships. No worry. One is completely open to whatever drama may unfold.
A woman's heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her.
If we lose love and self respect for each other, this is how we finally die.
Women deeply want men who are competent and powerful. And I don't mean power in that they can exert tyrannical control over others. That's not power. That's just corruption.
I was moving among two groups... who had almost ceased to communicate at all, who in intellectual, moral, and psychological climate had so little in common that... one might have crossed the ocean.
Not that we were incompatible: we just had nothing to talk about.
I like people and I like them to like me, but I wear my heart where God put it, on the inside.
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