How many on their deathbeds wished they'd spent more time at the office - or watching TV? The answer is, No one.
Stephen CoveyRead
We may find it convenient to live with the illusion that circumstances or other people are responsible for the quality of our lives, but the reality is that we are responsible-response-able-for our choices.
Interpretation
We often blame external factors for our lives, but ultimately we are responsible for our own choices.
Stephen Covey highlights the tendency of individuals to attribute their life's quality to external circumstances or the actions of others. In reality, he emphasizes that personal responsibility is key; we each hold the power to make choices that shape our lives, regardless of outside influences. Acknowledging this responsibility empowers us to take control and make positive changes.
In practice
In a motivational speech focused on personal growth.
How many on their deathbeds wished they'd spent more time at the office - or watching TV? The answer is, No one.
If you want to have a more pleasant, cooperative teenager, be a more understanding, empathic, consistent, loving parent. If you want to have more freedom, more latitude in your job, be a more responsible, a more helpful, a more contributing employee.
Listen with your eyes for feelings.
If we live out of our memory, we're tied to the past and to that which is finite. When we live out of our imagination, _x000D_ we're tied to that which is infinite.
Synergy is the highest activity of life; it creates new untapped alternatives; it values and exploits the mental, emotional, and psychological differences between people.
Keep in mind that you are always saying "no" to something. If it isn't to the apparent and urgent things in your life, it is probably to the most fundamental, highly important things.
Self-pity is a dead-end road. You make the choice to drive down it. It's up to you to decide to stay parked there or to turn around and drive out.
Some things come with their own punishments. Like bedrooms with built-in cupboards. They would all learn more about punishments soon. That they came in different sizes. That some were so big they were like cupboards with built-in bedrooms. You could spend your whole life in them, wandering through dark shelving.
O, what a tangled web we weave when first we practise to deceive!
I am growing more and more aware that all too often we preachers aim at nothing and hit it.
I got more true knowledge from reading the Book of God in one month, than I could ever have acquired from all the writings of men.
Why are you doing this to yourself? When something bad happens, why do you have to pick at it until it bleeds all over again?
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