It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
We may not agree with what religions are trying to teach us, but we can admire the institutional way in which they're doing it.
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What this quote means
The quote underscores the importance of appreciating the structures and methods used by religions, even if their teachings are disagreed with.
Alain De Botton highlights the complexity of religious teachings and recognizes that, while individuals may not personally align with the beliefs presented by various religions, there is value in acknowledging the significant and organized manner in which these beliefs are disseminated. This perspective encourages a respectful examination of the ways in which institutions shape and influence human thought and community life, regardless of personal belief systems.
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In a discussion about how different cultures approach spirituality, this quote can highlight the importance of understanding the structure of religions.
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