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Meditation takes us just as we are, with our confusion and our sanity. This complete acceptance of ourselves as we are is called maitri, or unconditional friendliness, a simple, direct relationship with the way we are.
Pema Chodron
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Meditation promotes self-acceptance and kindness towards our own state of being.

In this quote, Pema Chodron emphasizes the importance of accepting ourselves in our current state, whether we are confused or clear-minded. This concept, known as maitri or unconditional friendliness, encourages a nurturing and compassionate relationship with our own experiences and emotions, fostering a deeper understanding of ourselves through meditation.

Themes

MeditationSelf-AcceptanceMaitriFriendlinessMindfulness

In practice

Example use cases

In a meditation workshop, this quote could be used to inspire participants to embrace their thoughts and feelings without judgment.

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