Forgiveness is not about forgetting. It is about letting go of another person's throat.
William P. YoungRead
We must speak to them with our hands by giving, before we try to speak to them with our lips.
Interpretation
Actions speak louder than words; we should first show kindness through gestures before using spoken communication.
This quote by Peter Claver emphasizes the importance of nonverbal communication and actions in building relationships. It suggests that before we engage in verbal discussions or express our thoughts, we should demonstrate our intentions through acts of kindness and giving, which can resonate more deeply with others than mere words.
In practice
During a charity event, I quoted this to emphasize the importance of giving rather than just talking about donating.
Forgiveness is not about forgetting. It is about letting go of another person's throat.
...Grandpa's mind had left us, gone wild and wary. When I walked with him I could feel how strange it was. His thoughts swam between us, hidden under rocks, disappearing in weeds, and I was fishing for them, dangling my own words like baits and lures.
May was young and beautiful, we were legally married, but she was caught in the prison of my skin.
If you are open with someone, he will be open with you. If you want love from someone, give your love to him. If you want kind and sympathetic behavior from someone, be kind and sympathetic to him.
Something in the human psyche confuses beauty with the right to be loved. The briefest glance at human folly reveals that good looks and worthiness operate independently. Yet countless socializing forces, from Aunt Clara to the latest perfume ad, reinforce beliefs like 'If I were pretty enough, I would be loved.'
I always knew I had a relationship with God. But I wasn't sure God had a relationship with me.
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