Every one sees what you appear to be, few really know what you are, and those few dare not oppose themselves to the opinion of the many, who have the majesty of the state to defend them.
Niccolo MachiavelliRead
The nature of man is such that people consider themselves put under an obligation as much by the benefits they confer as by those they receive.
Interpretation
People feel a sense of duty based on both the help they give and the help they receive.
This quote by Niccolo Machiavelli reflects on the reciprocal nature of human relationships, suggesting that individuals feel obligated not only for the kindnesses they have received from others but also for the support and benefits they themselves offer. It highlights the complexity of social interactions and the idea that obligations can arise from both sides of the exchange, creating a sense of interconnectedness in human behavior.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a community service event to emphasize the importance of giving.
Every one sees what you appear to be, few really know what you are, and those few dare not oppose themselves to the opinion of the many, who have the majesty of the state to defend them.
For that reason, let a prince have the credit of conquering and holding his state, the means will always be considered honest, and he will be praised by everybody because the vulgar are always taken by what a thing seems to be and by what comes of it; and in the world there are only the vulgar, for the few find a place there only when the many have no ground to rest on.
Many have imagined republics and principalities which have never been seen or known to exist in reality; for how we live is so far removed from how we ought to live, that he who abandons what is done for what ought to be done, will rather bring about his own ruin than his preservation.
Whoever conquers a free town and does not demolish it commits a great error and may expect to be ruined himself.
And here one must not that hatred is acquired just as much by means of good actions as by bad ones; and so, as I said above, if a prince wishes to maintain the state, he is often obliged not to be good; because whenever that group which you believe you need to support you is corrupted, whether it be the common people, the soldiers, or the nobles, it is to your advantage to follow their inclinations in order to satisfy them; and then good actions are your enemy.
The chief foundations of all states, new as well as old or composite, are good laws and good arms.
The chief problem about death ... is the fear that there may be no afterlife - a depressing thought.
Every time I look in the mirror, I see that kid from Louisville, Kentucky, staring back at me. His name was Cassius Clay.
Teleology is like a mistress to a biologist: he cannot live without her but he's unwilling to be seen with her in public.
The Kingdom is to be in the midst of your enemies
The more uncertain I have felt about myself, the more there has grown up in me a feeling of kinship with all things.
A person is either himself or not himself; is either rooted in his existence or is a fabrication; has either found his humanhood or is still playing with masks and roles and status symbols. And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
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