Uncontradicting solitude Supports me on its giant palm; And like a sea-anemone Or simple snail, there cautiously Unfolds, emerges, what I am.
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Never such innocence, Never before or since, As changed itself to past Without a word--the men Leaving the gardens tidy, The thousands of marriages Lasting a little while longer: Never such innocence again.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on fleeting innocence and the transient nature of love and relationships.
In this poem, Philip Larkin captures the bittersweet essence of love and innocence, suggesting that past moments, once cherished, have transformed into memories that can no longer be revisited. The imagery of gardens and marriages emphasizes the beauty and fragility of these experiences, leaving a profound sense of melancholy that acknowledges the inevitability of change and loss in human relationships.
Themes
InnocenceRelationshipsMemoryLoveChange
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a wedding speech to reflect on the beauty of love and its fleeting nature.
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