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Nothing is forgotten in the processes of idealization. Reveries of idealization develop, not by letting oneself be taken in by memories, but by constantly dreaming the values of a being whom one would love. And that is the way a great dreamer dreams his double. His magnified double sustains him.
Gaston Bachelard
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What this quote means

The quote explores the idea of idealization and how dreams influence our perception of love and self.

Gaston Bachelard's quote reflects on the complex process of idealization, suggesting that our dreams and memories intertwine to shape how we perceive and ultimately love others. Rather than merely recalling past experiences, it emphasizes the importance of actively dreaming and envisioning the values of who we love, indicating that this idealized version sustains our aspirations and shapes our identity.

Themes

IdealizationDreamsLoveMemoryAspiration

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Example use cases

A speaker might use this quote in a talk about the power of dreams in shaping our identities.

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