Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
Rollo MayRead
While one might laugh at the meaningless boredom of people a decade or two ago, the emptiness has for many now moved from the state of boredom to a state of futility and despair, which holds promise of dangers.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The transition from boredom to despair reflects a deeper existential crisis in modern society.
Rollo May's quote highlights a significant shift in the human experience, where the feelings of emptiness have evolved from mere boredom to a more severe state of futility and despair. This change suggests that the challenges of modern life may lead to a sense of existential crisis, posing potential dangers for individuals and society as a whole.
Themes
BoredomDespairFutilityExistentialismModernityDanger
In practice
Example use cases
In a keynote speech addressing mental health, this quote can illustrate the importance of recognizing growing despair in today's society.
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