We see it in the body, that if you just give the body enough rest and comfort, it has remarkable self-healing capacities. Well, so does the spirit.
Gail SheehyRead
Being a pathfinder is to be willing to risk failure and still go on.
Interpretation
Being a pathfinder involves embracing the possibility of failure while continuing to pursue one's goals.
The quote by Gail Sheehy emphasizes the essence of bravery and resilience in the journey of exploration and growth. To be a pathfinder is to forge oneβs own path, accepting the inherent risks and uncertainties that accompany new ventures. It suggests that true courage lies not in the absence of fear, but in the determination to press on despite the possibility of failing.
In practice
When giving a motivational speech to students about taking risks in their careers.
We see it in the body, that if you just give the body enough rest and comfort, it has remarkable self-healing capacities. Well, so does the spirit.
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Never despair, but if you do, work on in despair.
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