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To bear with patience wrongs done to oneself is a mark of perfection, but to bear with patience wrongs done to someone else is a mark of imperfection and even of actual sin.
Thomas Aquinas
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Patience towards personal grievances signifies personal growth, while patience towards the wrongs of others reveals moral shortcomings.

In this quote, Thomas Aquinas highlights the ethical implications of our reactions to wrongdoing, suggesting that enduring personal offenses with patience reflects a level of personal maturity and perfection. Conversely, the inability to respond with the same patience towards injustices faced by others signifies a failure in moral character and may indicate a deeper sinfulness within oneself, prompting reflection on the different standards we often hold for ourselves versus others.

Themes

PatienceWrongsForgivenessImperfectionPerfection

In practice

Example use cases

In a lecture on ethics, one might use the quote to illustrate the moral complexities of forgiveness.

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