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There can be no peace of mind in love, since the advantage one has secured is never anything but a fresh starting-point for future desires.
Marcel Proust
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Love brings constant desire and longing, preventing true peace of mind.

In this quote, Marcel Proust suggests that love is inherently restless and filled with anticipation. The satisfaction gained from love is merely a temporary condition, as it often leads to new desires and expectations, making it impossible to achieve a lasting peace of mind. Love is presented as a dynamic force that continually propels individuals toward new emotional goals rather than providing a tranquil conclusion.

Themes

LoveDesirePeace Of MindRestlessnessEmotion

In practice

Example use cases

During a wedding toast, one might express the idea that love comes with endless longings.

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