A workplace culture where fathers are encouraged to take paternity leave would result in stronger families, a more equal labour market and a better economy.
David LammyRead
People don't contest that I'm British as a black man, but they do contest that I'm English. Too many people are going back to an ethnocentric idea of what being English means.
Interpretation
The quote highlights the complexities of identity and belonging, particularly regarding race and nationality.
David Lammy's quote addresses the challenges faced by individuals of diverse backgrounds in being accepted as part of a national identity. He points out that while his British identity is acknowledged, doubts arise regarding his claim to an English identity, suggesting a narrow and ethnocentric view of what it means to be English. This reflects broader societal attitudes toward race, ethnicity, and the inclusiveness of national identity.
In practice
In a discussion about cultural diversity at a community event.
A workplace culture where fathers are encouraged to take paternity leave would result in stronger families, a more equal labour market and a better economy.
We cannot afford to lose talented young black people, who make it to university, overseas, or worse, to let other talented black people be put off by the notion that university is somehow not for them.
The idea of a family sitting round the kitchen table and carefully planning their future family size based on the certainty of years to come is a complete fantasy. Back in the real world, jobs are lost, livelihoods taken away, families break apart, partners leave or pass away.
Many black youths are defying stereotypes, achieving good academic results, finding employment and contributing to their communities. But helping those who fall behind is not an exercise in political correctness, it is a precisely what a compassionate - and sensible - state should concern itself with.
Like many black men growing up in London, I have been stopped and searched by several policemen. I was 12 years old when I was first groped and frisked by police for walking down the road. It terrified me so much I wet myself.
Dads are not a risk to be managed, but a resource to be used for the benefit of the whole family.
All really nice girls wonder when men don't try to kiss them. They know they shouldn't want them to and they know they must act insulted if they do, but just the same, they wish the men would try.
A man long accustomed to admire his wife in general, seldom pauses to admire her in a particular gown or attitude, unless his attention is directed to her by the appreciative gaze of another man.
Human relationships are rich and they're messy and they're demanding. And we clean them up with technology. Texting, email, posting, all of these things let us present the self as we want to be. We get to edit, and that means we get to delete, and that means we get to retouch, the face, the voice, the flesh, the body -- not too little, not too much, just right.
When people say 'marriage' to me... It's always a means to an end. Everyone's so in a rush to define the relationship.
Seldom in the business and transactions of ordinary life, do we find the sympathy we want.
Sometimes you have to get to know someone really well to realize you're really strangers.
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