We're always observing, and we're cautious people. We really want attention, but at the same time, we're ashamed of wanting attention. All those bizarre qualities of being outside are necessary for being a writer.
Min Jin LeeRead
People often think of America as a classless society, but, of course, that isn't true. Within immigrant communities, there's an enormous distinction of class, depending on who your parents are, and that kind of thing comes out really quick in things like marriage and interpersonal relationships.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights the unnoticed class distinctions within immigrant communities in America, contradicting the notion of it being classless.
Min Jin Lee's quote points out the myth of America as a classless society by illustrating the underlying class distinctions present, especially within immigrant communities. These distinctions often manifest in personal and social aspects, particularly in marriage and relationships, showing that factors like parental background and social status still significantly influence interpersonal dynamics.
Themes
ClassSocietyRelationshipsImmigrantsAmericaDistinction
In practice
Example use cases
During a discussion on social dynamics in immigrant neighborhoods, this quote can provide insight into the complexities of class and relationships.
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