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Perhaps a child who is fussed over gets a feeling of destiny; he thinks he is the world for something important, and it gives him drive and confidence.
Benjamin Spock
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Overindulging a child can create a sense of importance and confidence in them.

This quote suggests that when a child receives excessive attention and care, they may develop a belief that they are destined for greatness. This feeling of importance can foster drive and confidence, enabling them to pursue their goals with vigor.

Themes

ChildConfidenceDestinyDriveImportance

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used in parenting workshops to highlight the balance between attention and independence.

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