If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
She comprehended the perversity of life, that in the struggle lies the joy.
Interpretation
True joy comes from understanding and embracing life's challenges.
In this quote, Maya Angelou reflects on the nature of life and the inherent struggles that come with it. She suggests that joy is not found in the absence of struggle or difficulties, but rather in the acceptance and comprehension of these challenges, indicating that overcoming obstacles can lead to a deeper appreciation for life itself.
In practice
During a motivational speech about personal growth and resilience.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
Money is not a substitute for tenderness, and power is not a substitute for tenderness. I can tell you, as I'm sitting here dying, when you most need it, neither money nor power will give you the feeling you're looking for, no matter how much of them you have."
Revenge is sweeter than life itself. So think fools.
Truth is something which you must see immediately — and to see something clearly you must give your heart and your mind and your whole being to it immediately.
My experience is what I agree to attend to.
Negative emotions are like unwelcome guests. Just because they show up on our doorstep doesn't mean they have a right to stay.
Every search begins with beginner’s luck. And every search ends with the victor’s being severely tested.
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