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Pity is like a knife, sometimes, and it may pierce one who employs it more shrewdly than the victim it would save.
Edwin Arlington Robinson
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Pity can often harm both the one who feels it and the one it is directed towards.

This quote by Edwin Arlington Robinson suggests that pity, while intended to be a compassionate response, can act like a sharp knife. It implies that in expressing pity, the person giving it can unintentionally cause more harm or reveal their own vulnerabilities, making them more affected by the emotions involved than the person they feel pity for.

Themes

PityEmpathyCompassionHarmHuman Emotion

In practice

Example use cases

In a conversation about compassion, I referenced the quote to illustrate the complexities of pity.

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