Manners are like zero in arithmetic. They may not be much in themselves, but they are capable of adding a great deal of value to everything else.
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The portion we see of human beings is very small: their formats and faces, voices and words.... beyond these, like an immense dark continent, lies all that has made them.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Human beings are complex, and what we see is just a small part of their true selves.
This quote by Freya Stark emphasizes the idea that the surface aspects of people, such as their appearances and words, do not capture the entirety of their being. It suggests that there is a vast unexplored depth to each individual, filled with experiences, emotions, and thoughts that remain hidden from view, likening this depth to an immense dark continent.
Themes
HumanityDepthComplexityUnderstandingPerception
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about empathy, one might use this quote to illustrate the importance of looking beyond the surface.
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