It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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The price we have paid for expecting to be so much more than our ancestors is a perpetual anxiety that we are far from being all we might be.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote highlights the burdens of modern expectations compared to those of our ancestors.
Alain De Botton reflects on the anxiety that comes with the pressure to exceed the achievements and expectations of our ancestors. He suggests that while we strive for greatness and fulfillment, this constant comparison can lead to a sense of inadequacy, making us feel as though we are never truly measuring up to our potential.
Themes
AnxietyExpectationsAncestorsFulfillmentPotential
In practice
Example use cases
During a motivational speech on personal development, one could use this quote to emphasize the importance of self-acceptance and managing expectations.
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