Falling in love is not an extension of one's limits or boundaries; it is a partial and temporary collapse of them.
M. Scott PeckRead
Problems call forth our courage and our wisdom; indeed, they create our courage and wisdom.
Interpretation
Challenges help us develop strength and understanding.
This quote suggests that facing problems is essential for personal growth. It argues that difficulties not only test our existing courage and wisdom but also contribute to the development of these qualities, highlighting that overcoming challenges can lead to a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us.
In practice
This quote would be perfect to use in a motivational speech about overcoming adversity.
Falling in love is not an extension of one's limits or boundaries; it is a partial and temporary collapse of them.
Listening well is an exercise of attention and by necessity hard work. It is because they do not realize this or because they are not willing to do the work that most people do not listen well.
If your goal is to avoid pain and escape suffering, I would not advise you to seek higher levels of consciousness or spiritual evolution.
All my life I used to wonder what I would become when I grew up. Then, about seven years ago, I realized that I was never going to grow up--that growing is an ever ongoing process.
When we love someone our love becomes demonstrable or real only through our exertion - through the fact that for that someone (or for ourself) we take an extra step or walk an extra mile. Love is not effortless. To the contrary, love is effortful.
An unconscious, gentle process whereby people who want to be loving attempt to be so by telling little white lies, by withholding some of the truth about themselves and their feelings in order to avoid conflict. Pseudocommunity is conflict-avoiding; true community is conflict-resolving.
To an active mind, indolence is more painful than labor.
The challenge for those of us who care about our faith and about a hurting world is to tell stories which will carry the words of grace and hope in their bones and sinews and not wear them like fancy dress.
The quality of any advice anybody has to offer has to be judged against the quality of life they actually lead.
The rare individuals who unselfishly try to serve others have an enormous advantage-they have little competition.
The main problem with this great obsession for saving time is very simple: you can't save time. You can only spend it wisely or foolishly. The Bisy Backson has practically no time at all, because he's too busy wasting it by trying to save it. And by trying to save it, he ends up wasting the whole thing.
There aren't any embarrassing questions β just embarrassing answers.
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