Falling in love is not an extension of one's limits or boundaries; it is a partial and temporary collapse of them.
M. Scott PeckRead
Problems call forth our courage and our wisdom; indeed, they create our courage and wisdom.
Interpretation
Challenges help us develop strength and understanding.
This quote suggests that facing problems is essential for personal growth. It argues that difficulties not only test our existing courage and wisdom but also contribute to the development of these qualities, highlighting that overcoming challenges can lead to a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us.
In practice
This quote would be perfect to use in a motivational speech about overcoming adversity.
Falling in love is not an extension of one's limits or boundaries; it is a partial and temporary collapse of them.
Listening well is an exercise of attention and by necessity hard work. It is because they do not realize this or because they are not willing to do the work that most people do not listen well.
If your goal is to avoid pain and escape suffering, I would not advise you to seek higher levels of consciousness or spiritual evolution.
All my life I used to wonder what I would become when I grew up. Then, about seven years ago, I realized that I was never going to grow up--that growing is an ever ongoing process.
When we love someone our love becomes demonstrable or real only through our exertion - through the fact that for that someone (or for ourself) we take an extra step or walk an extra mile. Love is not effortless. To the contrary, love is effortful.
An unconscious, gentle process whereby people who want to be loving attempt to be so by telling little white lies, by withholding some of the truth about themselves and their feelings in order to avoid conflict. Pseudocommunity is conflict-avoiding; true community is conflict-resolving.
People ask me about what sacrifices I've made. I always answer: I've made no sacrifices, I've made choices.
Read books, listen to tapes, attend seminars-they are decades of wisdom reduced to invaluable hours.
nobody means to get carried away in mediocrity, but it happens, it happens unless you think about everything you do, unless you make every choice the best one you know how to make.
An ant on the move does more than a dozing ox.
If a man is respectful he will not be treated with insolence. If he is tolerant he will win the multitude. If he is trustworthy in word his fellow men will entrust him with responsibility. If he is quick he will achieve results.
It is only imperfection that complains of what is imperfect. The more perfect we are the more gentle and quiet we become towards the defects of others.
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