But I marvel when I observe these men setting themselves up as instructors of youth who cannot see that they are applying the analogy of an art with hard and fast rules to a creative process
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Regard as your most faithful friends, not those who praise everything you say or do, but those who criticize your mistakes.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True friends are those who provide honest feedback rather than blind praise.
This quote by Isocrates emphasizes the value of constructive criticism in friendships. It suggests that genuine friends are those who care enough to point out our faults and mistakes, helping us grow, rather than just supporting us unconditionally without regard for our betterment.
Themes
FriendshipCriticismHonestyGrowthFeedback
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of true friendship, one might say, 'As Isocrates wisely stated, regard as your most faithful friends those who criticize your mistakes.'
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