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(...) being right all the time acquires a huge importance in education, and there is this terror of being wrong. The ego is so tied to being right that later on in life you are reluctant to accept that you are ever wrong, because you are defending not the idea but your self-esteem. (...) this terror of being wrong means that people have enormous difficulties in changing ideas.
Edward De Bono
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The fear of being wrong can hinder personal growth and the acceptance of new ideas.

In this quote, Edward De Bono points out the detrimental impact of an overemphasis on being right within education and broader life experiences. He suggests that fear of being wrong is not only tied to our self-esteem but also makes it challenging for individuals to be open to changing their beliefs and ideas. This fear can create a rigid mindset that stifles learning and growth.

Themes

EducationFearChangeSelf-EsteemOpen-Mindedness

In practice

Example use cases

During a seminar on personal development, this quote can be used to encourage participants to embrace their mistakes.

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