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I thought I was going to school to be other people, but really, what I learned was to be myself - accepting myself, my strengths and weaknesses.
Lupita Nyong'O
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance over conforming to others' expectations.

Lupita Nyong'o reflects on her educational journey, revealing that while she initially believed she was learning to emulate others, the true lesson was in embracing her own identity, including both her strengths and vulnerabilities. This realization denotes a significant shift from seeking approval to valuing self-acceptance, highlighting the transformative power of education in fostering personal growth and authenticity.

Themes

Self-AcceptanceEducationIdentityPersonal GrowthAuthenticity

In practice

Example use cases

In a graduation speech, a speaker might use this quote to inspire students to embrace their true selves as they step into the world.

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