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Sentimentalism is the working off on yourself of feelings you haven't really got.
D. H. Lawrence
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Sentimentalism involves feigning emotions that are not genuinely felt.

In this quote, D. H. Lawrence critiques the phenomenon of sentimentalism, suggesting that it is an exercise in expressing emotions that one does not actually possess. He implies that such behavior can lead to inauthenticity and a disconnect between true feelings and the emotions one displays to others.

Themes

SentimentalismFeelingsAuthenticityEmotionsSelf-Deception

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion on authenticity in relationships, one might say, 'D. H. Lawrence reminds us that sentimentalism is the working off on yourself of feelings you haven't really got.'

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