The germ of an idea doesn't make the sculpture that stands up... so the next stage is hard work
Mihaly CsikszentmihalyiRead
It is not the skills we actually have that determine how we feel but the ones we think we have.
Interpretation
Our perception of our skills impacts our emotions more than our actual abilities.
This quote emphasizes the importance of mindset in shaping our feelings and experiences. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi suggests that it is not our actual skills that dictate our emotions, but rather our beliefs about those skills, highlighting the power of self-perception in influencing emotional states and overall well-being.
In practice
During a motivational seminar to inspire attendees to build self-confidence.
The germ of an idea doesn't make the sculpture that stands up... so the next stage is hard work
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